she is definitely unstable. That is sad for her, but she needs to do a LOT of self work before bringing someone else in to her life. It is not fair to put someone throu such draining toxicity. Ughhh…
Alyssa is mentally ill…..
My opinion of Alyssa before was mixed, and I kind of felt bad for her, but I’ve seen a really cruel side of her come out lately. A mother like her raising a young son, and treating a seeming very kind man this way gives me pause.
You are no queen honey.
Duncan wanted an adult partner who understood emotions not just emotional. Ugh she’s the worst just absolute worst.
Harrison looks like he wants to commit violence. When the experts say he is most predictable it’s because he is a classic narcissist. Textbook.
Why does Alyssa get so nit picky, just please leave Duncan she will only hurt you always. She just wants to win and those stoopid faces and stoooopid responses then addressing the group as if they are her side is just beyond infuriating. She needs so much therapy!
Alyssa, you are core t you are not good enough as you sit there. You Amy become eventually but no one human will begin a new marriage for every other weekend and occasional weds. Not one and not even yourself had it been reversed. I bet you only dumped the married guy (if it was you) when he didn’t give you the attention you demanded bc it had to go to his kids or family. She needs therapy and to get over being a single mom bc that is her new reality period. She better not have ruined such a great man.
Alyssa lives in another world! !
Bronte has been Harrison’s puppet the whole way through. I think off camera, he has told her what to say and controlled her. I also think she has realised this before now but has stayed for exposure.
Alyssa and Harrison would be the perfect match. They could gaslight each other all day every day. What a horrible pair of people who don’t deserve a happily ever after with anyone.
Here’s my thoughts;
Cameron is an emotionally unavailable, selfish guy who comes across really cold. I feel so sorry for Lyndall.
Mel & Layton – I like these two but putting two CEOs together was always going to cause some issues. I’ve felt quite emotional watching their arguments and how upset Mel was.
Evelyn – beautiful, smart, witty and honest and super cool. If I was a guy I’d want to marry her! Rupert feels inadequate next to her and I don’t blame him.
Harrison – is this guy real? Or is he an actor / mole?
Brontë – if Harrison is real, the reason she found it hard to end it with him is that like many toxic people, he’s probably very good in bed. She was dickmatised?
Ollie & Tahnie – two very agreeable people who click, which is why they’ve had no drama. I hope they work out.
Alyssa is not a very nice person. She’s treated Duncan unfairly from what I can see. From what we see, he’s a good guy. It feels like the reason she’s been having these meltdowns is that she doesn’t actually want Duncan to be a part of her son’s life. He deserves better.
I was hoping that the room would give Bronte a standing ovation, or at least a ‘cheers’ LOL
I think Lyndall and Duncan should get together.
When will episode 33 be added?
Alyssa wants me to throw my drink at and smash my 75” tv… but I won’t, because I have a child.
Can we just applaud Mel for how far she has come since the wedding day!!!! She could not stand the air he breathed upon their first meeting at the altar.
And at home stay I think it was obvious how invested she is in this marriage and seeing it work.
Can’t stand Alyssa
Alyssa is so immature and acts like a spoiled brat.
The fact that Harrison’s Mum is all over social media claiming he was attacked by Bronte and her sister and that Harrison does nothing wrong just shows you why he is the way he is. He has never been held accountable and his behavior has been justified by his family his entire life.
Besides the back and forth with H and B, I agree with pretty much all of this and it’s direction. And what I mean is when B is asking the questions and her pushing stuff ahead of the questions, whereas if he does it he is yelped to shut it cause it’s her turn- but this is what you kind of get when you’re in a group of H hating volcanos more at one than the other (though both are pretty bad imo).
As said, besides that I pretty much agree with everything that’s been said between each, and for the other couples. And I def agree with @Jens Lens that Alyssa was very general when asked a more specific-style question after asking him to be specific.
Cam: I can see the mindset but as this experiment is meant to push boundaries, he needed to step up more often, if she frequently pushes away when you try then you have a leg to stand on, but I only heard you try that once only and that’s far from enough.
Duncan: We only see glimpses through the show so unfortunately of how Alyssa worded that “51%” we likely did not see but I feel that it’s a bit too broken with her in the Cpt’s seat heading for a ravine.
Rupert: That one to me is a huge rollercoaster of a mess. Imo that one date shouldn’t have landed him that “fun” opportunity. A Make-out session maybe but that’s my way of it. To me it’s like a grade 10 boy who got his way with his teacher crush.
Layton: Mel maybe may be more emotionally based and you logical, but I feel Mel has met you halfway and saw things in logical aspects. You have not in reverse minus your little back pats. Especially for this type of scenario, more emotional degrees of talking are needed. You need to learn from Duncan and Josh, instead of keeping around Harrison. Yes they say keep your enemies closer but seriously…
Ollie: Tbf I could never see anything spark around between you two personally, likely due to the show pushing the agenda between B&H, C&J, and M&L. But I do hope the best for you two going forward as I guess the group with the least negative drama got least airtime cause it wasn’t drama-y enough. haha!
Layton, you are really a fool.
Good to see Ollie saying such mature things tonight! He’s awesome
alyssa is so condesendimg walk away duncan
what an arse alyssa
Shut up Bronte, you are fake.
Mel is just saying she loves him because she doesn’t want to look like the one who broke the relationship. She was the one that said they are mature enough to know that the relationship is not going to work
Why can’t Duncan be included in her weekend with her CHILD?
Whoa! Cam changed. I always thought he was a good guy. It does make a difference if she’s in Darwin or in New Zealand. Yes, he will be remote, but he will come home, to her.
Harrison really scares me. It’s hard to believe that this is scripted because who would want to be portrayed that way? If he really is like this, I hope that he never gets his clutches into another woman ever again! I also feel bad for his son, I can’t imagine a child can grow up to be a well balanced individual with a role model like that for a father!
To do that type of exercise without any sort of debriefing by the experts is unethical as a practicing clinician.
Duncan and Lyndall should give it a go. Alyssa can have Cam because she only wants Wednesdays and every other weekend so him being in the bush is fine.
Are Cam, Alyssa and Harry delusional??!!!
These three are all about…..me, me and me!
Totally self-centered, selfish and in Harry’s
case narcissist, liar, manipulator and just a
plain a douche bag!
Now I will tell you how, I really feel. lmao
Alyssa is such a bish for putting it all on Duncan. She can’t say she’s falling for him, but he’s not allowed in her life, except for every second weekend and a Wednesday here and there. Duncan tried to approach/discuss the problem, and she saw it as ripping the relationship to shreds. He should just let her go. She’s totally not not worth it
When alyssa tells duncan to be more specific, she is desperate for him to say something to do with her son. She’s taken a problem she has and is pushing it onto Duncan , then she can turn around and say “I was right”.
I think Alyssa wants Duncan to do whatever she wants. It all has to be her way for her to feel good. It doesn’t matter how he feels. It’s all about Alyssa. RUN DUNCAN.
Cam is an IDIOT!! Him & his mother need to be together!! What mother does that when you know your son spends so much time alone?? Lyndall you have nothing to think about other than how fast you’re going to run the other way.
ABOUT TIME BRONTE!!
Rupert is too stupid for Eveyln. Or he’s playing stupid. He’s so happy he scored he feels confident to say she’s not into him so he won’t be hurt & say at least I tagged her. Evelyn RUN!!
SOMETHING is not right with Layton. I can’t put my finger on it. Poor Mel.
They would be great together.
Tawnie & Ollie CONGRATULATIONS!!
Cam is a little momma’s boy. He doesn’t look like he could rise to Lyndall’s caliber in this lifetime.
Alyssa can’t see past the tip of her nose. She needs to let him go so she can go work on herself.
Harrison should be locked up and throw away the bloody key!
Cams mother put her daggers in and killed his relationship, then Cam went into self sabotage.
Aylissa tells Duncan to be specific but then doesn’t answer his question…she responded but, she REALLY didn’t explain what Duncan needs to do to better the relationship.


Alyssa is so low self esteem is crazy. You were a willing mistress, you have a child, you cannot withstand an adult conversation yet this beautiful man is still willing to get in the trenches with you. This is a 101 class on how to insecurity yourself out of a good man