Adam said Cartier is on one end of the scale and she is too reserved for him.  Cartier clearly wants affection and cuddle and what Adam said was being needy.  That doesn’t sound “reserved” to me.  When I listened to him, I still think he got the ick for Cartier after the hideaway perhaps because she didn’t put out.  How else is Cartier “reserved”?  It doesn’t make any other sense.