lauren needs to be ripped a new one.

Paul sits there through every episode like a mute. Reminds me of a scared dog with his tail tucked between his legs since his blow up.  I think Karina is sympathizing with Lauren because of what transpired  between her and Paul on the night he flipped out. She’s trying to help defend the indefensible

We all deserve a friend like Jaime the ones saying shes wrong probably is the problem in their life 😂 

Jamie is a bully. Lauren stood up to her and she didn’t like it. Carina is the only brave one.

Jaimes delievery mightve been seen as “aggressive” but she wasnt wrong. shes an aquarius like me so I get her 100%! We like to be fair and resolve conflicts which is what we’ve seen from her time and time again. shes been the voice of reason throughout the entire series so far. When she and the group of ladies approached Lauren they were more than kind, Lauren was the one that got spicy and the other ladies gave it right back to her. Now again, Jaime is an aquarius, so when someone wants smoke with her shes going to throw them to the flames. Now what she didnt expect, was for her so called friends to have Laurens back when everyone witnesses how classless and rude she was being. Then to add insult to injury they said she was a mean girl. Us aquarius take our relationships VERY seriously. We are big on having our peoples backs so when they didnt do that she took it as the ultimate betrayal. Rhi is also an aquarius which is why she owned up and apologized because she knew Jaime was right and she wasnt being a good friend nor was she being fair in that situation. 

Who the actual hell made Jamie ‘the boss’ and the spokesperson for everyone? Her communication style and delivery is absolutely shocking. It’s like being back at school, side with me or you aren’t my friend. What happened to having an opinion? You can only be Jamie’s friend if you agree with her. Get lost Jamie! Since the retreet, you have been a disgusting person. No one is agreeing with Lauren’s behaviour, but for you to go into the dinner party like you want everyone for dinner, is not acceptable. You even made another lady cry, and made her question her actions. Who would want their kids to turn out like you? There is a way to talk in a group setting and your actions were uncalled for. The production team will show us viewers a version of what went on, but what i saw tonight is not on. Your husband is annoying as well. Both coming on to see who’s on their side! You are here to find a partner, not make best friends. Just get on with the task in hand. By next week, you’ll all be friends again, so stop making the drama man.I also find it really annoying how fake Awhina and Adrian are. Clearly they don’t end up together. Adrian doesn’t know how to conduct himself in a relationship. All he can provide is sex and there are toys out there for that now, Awhina. I am sure Awhina is looking for a man that has emotional intelligence, to put her and her son first. Why do these shows bring these ‘Love Island’ type guys onto shows where you actually have to think with your head instead of your d**k. What’s more important for these tv shows? Viewing figures or a successful experiment? Clearly from season 3 or 4 onwards, it’s only been about the talking points, not so much about getting people into a successful relationship. It’s a shame, but that’s what a production crew are paid to do, create drama.

Lauren is no better than anyone.Name calling is what children do. Ryan is a hypocrite- threatening to end things if she says another word about sex- what did he do first? Jamie has gone off the deep end- she says this is her, deal with it. How does she make it in society? Carina- what was that thing she was wearing on her head? Awthina- you are going to get hurt. Adrian is a master manipulator.

Jamie is the embodiment of COMPLETELY right message (NO NOTES on the subject and context of her complaint or her issues with Rhi and Carina), COMPLETELY WRONG delivery.
So, NOW…because of her inability to see that sometimes she just needs to stop talking (and especially talking OVER people)…the argument devolves into a treatise on tone or volume or aggression in communication. Which are valid academic discussions to have in a calm setting. But when things escalate like this – THIS WAS ALL on Jamie – nothing will be accomplished. 
And then the people from whom you DID deserve an apology…are now given the pathway to ignore the actual point you have been trying to make and they get to shut down. It’s a catch-22; the more you yell about how you’re owed an apology, the less apt people are to even think about giving one – just on principle. 

Carina and Rhi MADE themselves part of the problem by inserting themselves in a situation that they didn’t need to.
Running to comfort the person who openly insulted you to your because those insulted clap back at them …isn’t a mature move. That’s about some internal shit you need to work through about allowing consequences for actions. Trying to mollify someone like Lauren doesn’t do anything. What it does is embolden them to keep at it because you’ve NOW shown them that as long as they “act hurt or overwhelmed” because they are getting rightful negative reactions to their behavior…YOU will chase after them, “make sure you’re okay”🥴, and then apologize TO THEM for receiving any consequences of their own actions.
And then they don’t even show up to another group event because they don’t need to. Leaving YOU to deal with the fallout of a crumbling relationship YOU helped instigate by inserting yourself where you didn’t need to.
Rhi and Carina are problematic. 

I think the real reason Carina and Rhi don’t apologise to Jamie upfront like Jamie wanted is because they felt they got caught up in the middle of things. That is half true. But they really didn’t think about the context of what Lauren was saying when they ran to her side.
Rhi’s apology was genuine but you can totally tell she hates conflict. She suits 1 on 1 communication better.
It would have been nice to hear what Corina had to say but you already know that she would say she ‘wants to be a good person’ blah blah blah. She does seem a little away with the fairies with her rose colour glasses on everything. 
Jamie probably came in too strong but you can see she was fed up waiting for Carina and Rhi to say something. To be honest I don’t think Carina or Rhi would have said anything at all if they could. 
You got 2 ladies who don’t like conflict and take the backseat. And another who has no trouble with conflict and like to front foot things. When it comes to resolving conflict they are polar opposites! Personally I don’t think any of them did a good job of being the bigger person and pushing out of their default setting to find a resolution. 

It’s 100% Lauren come to be a keyboard warrior, it’s sad  😂 💪 

Jamie has shown the highest level of emotional maturity throughout the series, but tonight we saw her flaws. I still can’t say I disagree with her though, nothing is more annoying than someone spineless like Carina, especially to someone like Jamie who is very strong. My head is still boggled by how Paul punching a wall within the first few weeks of their relationship was forgiven so easily but Jamie raising her voice was a bigger issue. Weird one that 

Ohhh Mel is going to hand Lauren her ass… is it Sunday yet 😂

Also another random comment – they made Jamie sound like she is the only one yelling but Corina was also yelling at her and added more names like mean girl… I cannot ahahahahahaha

As much as I disagree w screaming I also disagree w the entire table of women sitting quiet while Lauren called them all names and Karina and rhi gasliting Jamie into thinking their GROUP civil conversation asking Lauren how she felt was an attack …. it’s literally filmed you see them being calm until Lauren started w rude and disrespectful comments..shocker it’s a dating reality show……. also if they didn’t like her ‘agressive approach’ why did rhi and korina let her use the same approach at Jackie when she texted rhi’s hubby and stop her from calling justice for Lauren at the beginning against Elliot …… if she is in their corner amazing but no one is willing to help her out when she needed it and now she is crashing out unfortunately 

Jamie you are a beautifull person and those rich b…. dont deserve friend like you. They are empathetic, please, Lauren money thats what they emphathise to.

Jamie is legit sinking lower and lower. Absolutely disgusting behavior. Backing people up doesn’t mean youre right100% of the time.

So the thing with Jamie is instead of her starting the convo telling everyone how she really feels (hurt) she goes in guns-blazing… She reminds me alot of myself when I was 28 years young. Jamie explained how she is a tough woman but loves hard. Ditto, what she needs to learn is that not all women are like her… Jamie WAS NOT the MEN GIRL! It was Lauren! Corina’s an idiot…. HAHAHA

Clint’s, Lauren’s little puppy SMH Grow some sir.

Like if you do not want Lauren at the dinner party! This is not your show lady!!! 

I’m still LOL at Ryan…Ryan obstaining for sex before exercise to preserve his testotrone levels so he have a great performance! Thank you to the narrator for reminding me!! HAHAHAHA

Holy shit Jamie is a spiteful bitch

Did anyone else get a sour taste from Jamie???? i mean i really want to like her but after tonight i don’t see how i can anymore. she was awfully obnoxious and rude to her ‘friends’. anyway Jamie im sorry but i cant defend this time

There we go Jamie’s true colours are showing. that was absolutely disgusting behaviour from her, she really needs a taste of her own medicine. glad to see Australia can finally see it.