Revelations Week asks our couples to be vulnerable as a new task begins. In front of peers raw truths will be exposed, but it's one grooms honesty that leaves the room speechless.
Partner Swap. The couples separate and move in for three days with another partner which causes torment for one bride.
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There we go Jamie’s true colours are showing. that was absolutely disgusting behaviour from her, she really needs a taste of her own medicine. glad to see Australia can finally see it.
yeah i agree lets hope all those who defended her last episode on here can admit to their mistakes. its so clear she wants to be the center of attention and does that by just being loud. its a gross personality trait to have. i feel bad for Rhi and Carina, maybe theyll get the apology they deserve.
I agree that I am not on Jamie’s side with how she has handled things, but I think her heart was in the right place. The girls noticed she was not into Clint and wanted her to realise she was missing out on a good guy. Jamie has shown several times that she has good insight into most situations. However, I think her attitude towards Karina was horrible. All this energy should be towards Lauren. Jamie is seeing this as ultimate betrayal, but I honestly think that Karina and Rhi wanted to make sure Lauren was ok and not necessarily taking her side, especially Rhi cause Karina gives flip-flop energy. We saw Rhi go to Lauren the next day to say how she addresses the ladies is uncalled for, of course Lauren hates the truth and taking accountability.
Did anyone else get a sour taste from Jamie???? i mean i really want to like her but after tonight i don’t see how i can anymore. she was awfully obnoxious and rude to her ‘friends’. anyway Jamie im sorry but i cant defend this time
im glad i can say that i never liked her. it was so obvius something like this would happen, her personality is predictable. saw it coming from a mile away… and could hear it too LOL 😉
it was so clear she was just looking to fight and that is the problem. people ar scareed of her because of how confrontational and loud she is. people defending her baffles me
I think we saw Jamie spiral as she realised that she backed the wrong people this whole time. If you notice, Jamie is just loud and very outspoken, BUT, she actually didn’t call Lauren names, or swear at her. I do agree that her approach is not the most ideal, but that doesn’t mean that your so called friends, can sit back and allow someone to call her names, and then sit quietly as Clint swears at her. Hmmm? True friends, would have spoken up for her to Lauren just about the name calling. Just to say “Hey Lauren, we know you want to defend yourself but no one here is calling you out of your name, no need to do that.” A true friend could also just take the loud friend aside, and say ” friend, I think things are getting crazy, let’s try to just drop it for now, she clearly doesn’t want to talk about this and she clearly doesn’t have a big enough vocabulary to express herself in the lady like manner that pretends to have” BUT to just keep quiet??? NO ways man…Those are not Jamie’s friends. They let their “friend” get sworn at infront of everyone. No ways I let my friend go down like that. I would defend her, and then take her out of that situation to calm things down, and then the next morning, talk to her about her approach and what I observed. What she will know and remember is that I had her back.
BECAUSE LAUREN is the alphashes not letting anyone take control much as she thinks she wnats it – she needs serious therapy. Laurens the most bogan one of them all, with her shein shit clothes pretending her shit doesnt stink. she comes from the streets and has done herself a rebrand
I am team Jamie as well…and I wouldn’t use the term ‘wrong’, but she should have let Carina speak in her entirety and THEN respond. She should have bit her tongue for that brief moment, and heard her out. She did go too far with the ‘shut your mouth’ to more than one person as well. Not cool. But I love her. She let her emotions get away with her. Could you imagine how it would have been, had the Puppetmaster and DumbDumb shown up?! Yikes!
I couldn’t edit my last reply. I just wanted to clarify that I agre, that Jamie was not wrong, in the reason behind her confronting those who needed it, just in (as it was said in the episode) the delivery.
I’m still LOL at Ryan…Ryan obstaining for sex before exercise to preserve his testotrone levels so he have a great performance! Thank you to the narrator for reminding me!! HAHAHAHA
So the thing with Jamie is instead of her starting the convo telling everyone how she really feels (hurt) she goes in guns-blazing… She reminds me alot of myself when I was 28 years young. Jamie explained how she is a tough woman but loves hard. Ditto, what she needs to learn is that not all women are like her… Jamie WAS NOT the MEN GIRL! It was Lauren! Corina’s an idiot…. HAHAHA
Now, I posted the above comment before I saw Jamie screaming “shut your mouth”… Now, Jamie…. HAHAHA she should have just left the dinner. She let her emotions explode!
preach!!!! all these people backing her up are too dumb to admit this bc theyve fallen in love with her during the stupid show and cant accept their favourite is the bad guy/mean girl
Jamie you are a beautifull person and those rich b…. dont deserve friend like you. They are empathetic, please, Lauren money thats what they emphathise to.
dumb woman you just saying this bc people have different opinions than you…. you sound a lot like Jamie the witch looking bitch…such boganic behaviour…
Hark at who is name calling now? Strongest I have used is madam. and that’s what Lauren reminds me of, a Brothel Madam who lives in rough area of the city, looks like her too, come to think of it.
As much as I disagree w screaming I also disagree w the entire table of women sitting quiet while Lauren called them all names and Karina and rhi gasliting Jamie into thinking their GROUP civil conversation asking Lauren how she felt was an attack …. it’s literally filmed you see them being calm until Lauren started w rude and disrespectful comments..shocker it’s a dating reality show……. also if they didn’t like her ‘agressive approach’ why did rhi and korina let her use the same approach at Jackie when she texted rhi’s hubby and stop her from calling justice for Lauren at the beginning against Elliot …… if she is in their corner amazing but no one is willing to help her out when she needed it and now she is crashing out unfortunately
Also another random comment – they made Jamie sound like she is the only one yelling but Corina was also yelling at her and added more names like mean girl… I cannot ahahahahahaha
Im sorry but i have to agree with mafs, Jamie was clearly shouting first and was instigating it all. it would’ve been much more civil if jamie could control herself for once
Lauren still didn’t “get it” enough from the experts, in my opinion. Kinda disappointed they went harder on & spent more time calling Jamie to the carpet (as they should’ve) instead of truly showing Lauren what a nasty woman she is & then handing her a respectable verbal a** “whooping” she deserved 🙂
Jamie has shown the highest level of emotional maturity throughout the series, but tonight we saw her flaws. I still can’t say I disagree with her though, nothing is more annoying than someone spineless like Carina, especially to someone like Jamie who is very strong. My head is still boggled by how Paul punching a wall within the first few weeks of their relationship was forgiven so easily but Jamie raising her voice was a bigger issue. Weird one that
I agree with your statement about Jamie. She is still my girl though. We all have flaws. She is letting her hurt lead her in continuing with the raised voice and cutting Carina off. I wish she would have just sat back, and calmly listened to Carina…and once she was finished, then respond…with an acceptable tone and volume. Jaime is passionate and straight forward, and everyone has known that from day one. She is not going to let anyone extinguish her flame. But, she might have made a more effective arguement with a quieter tone. When raising my kids… I got my point across to them alot stronger, when I took them by the arm or whatever and looked right in their face and firmly, WHISPERED, whatever it was I wanted them to do, then I ever did, when I raised my voice and was yelling at them, LOL . I would not call Carina ‘spineless’… I don’t think she handles confrontation as well as others might. We all are not the same, as Rhi clearly showed tonight… she processes things differently. I can only imagine how much more loud and heated, that dinner party would have gotten, had Dimwit and the Iceberg showed up. What a chicken shit move to hide away at home.
SHE SHOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN BROUGHT BACK IN THE EXPERIMENT, THAT LAUREN IS A VAIN, CONCEITED, NARCISSISTIC MADAM. LAUREN THE LUSHI AM BEGINNING TO THINK THAT ELIOT SAW HER FOR WHAT SHE IS, A FAKE, SHE IS THE FERAL BOGAN, NOT HER SISTER OR THE GIRLS IN THE GROUP, JUST HER ALONE, I HOPE THAT JOHN, MEL AND ALELEESANDRA PUT THOSE WHO DELIBERATELY WENT AGAINST THE SHOWS PROTOCOL IN THEIR PLACE AND KICK THEM OFF THE EXPERIMENT ALTOGETHER.
I think the real reason Carina and Rhi don’t apologise to Jamie upfront like Jamie wanted is because they felt they got caught up in the middle of things. That is half true. But they really didn’t think about the context of what Lauren was saying when they ran to her side.
Rhi’s apology was genuine but you can totally tell she hates conflict. She suits 1 on 1 communication better.
It would have been nice to hear what Corina had to say but you already know that she would say she ‘wants to be a good person’ blah blah blah. She does seem a little away with the fairies with her rose colour glasses on everything.
Jamie probably came in too strong but you can see she was fed up waiting for Carina and Rhi to say something. To be honest I don’t think Carina or Rhi would have said anything at all if they could.
You got 2 ladies who don’t like conflict and take the backseat. And another who has no trouble with conflict and like to front foot things. When it comes to resolving conflict they are polar opposites! Personally I don’t think any of them did a good job of being the bigger person and pushing out of their default setting to find a resolution.
The thing is…NOT wanting to be involved in conflict should have kept Carina AND Rhi from running to Lauren and involving themselves at all. What is going on with this two, I think, is that they want to present to everyone what “kind people” they want everyone to think they are – it’s a chosen identity thing – and so they’d rather be SEEN “comforting Lauren” (which she brought on herself by openly insulting every single person there INCLUDING Rhi and Carina) because it makes THEM look like they are neutral. Running to “see how Lauren was doing” (because everyone else had a rightfully negative response to her) and then EXPECTING no one who was insulted to have ANY ISSUES with that was a wild expectation.
The two women are playing both sides because it benefits their perceptions of themselves and how they want people to see them. And then to self-victimize because a friend feels betrayed by you contextualing and low-key defending indefensible behavior (again…also directed at Carina and Rhi!) and wants to confront you about it? Yeesh.
I don’t think it’s about being right in this situation, they all screwed up in different ways. It’s pretty evident that they all screwed up when the focus has shifted from the actual problem (Lauren) to now each other.
Carina and Rhi MADE themselves part of the problem by inserting themselves in a situation that they didn’t need to.
Running to comfort the person who openly insulted you to your because those insulted clap back at them …isn’t a mature move. That’s about some internal shit you need to work through about allowing consequences for actions. Trying to mollify someone like Lauren doesn’t do anything. What it does is embolden them to keep at it because you’ve NOW shown them that as long as they “act hurt or overwhelmed” because they are getting rightful negative reactions to their behavior…YOU will chase after them, “make sure you’re okay”🥴, and then apologize TO THEM for receiving any consequences of their own actions.
And then they don’t even show up to another group event because they don’t need to. Leaving YOU to deal with the fallout of a crumbling relationship YOU helped instigate by inserting yourself where you didn’t need to.
Rhi and Carina are problematic.
Jamie is the embodiment of COMPLETELY right message (NO NOTES on the subject and context of her complaint or her issues with Rhi and Carina), COMPLETELY WRONG delivery.
So, NOW…because of her inability to see that sometimes she just needs to stop talking (and especially talking OVER people)…the argument devolves into a treatise on tone or volume or aggression in communication. Which are valid academic discussions to have in a calm setting. But when things escalate like this – THIS WAS ALL on Jamie – nothing will be accomplished.
And then the people from whom you DID deserve an apology…are now given the pathway to ignore the actual point you have been trying to make and they get to shut down. It’s a catch-22; the more you yell about how you’re owed an apology, the less apt people are to even think about giving one – just on principle.
You’re actually super right on that. I felt like Jamie got too heated and screamed. Carina clearly wanted to stay friends.
Whether or not Jamie and Carina can have a relationship is one thing, but the fact that Jamie’s voice overwhelmed Carina’s will make people empathize with her side even though (in my opinion) Carina was wrong and didn’t have Jamie’s or anyone’s backs that night. At least from what we were shown, they were not mean girls and Lauren not liking the atmosphere or not being able to answer any question in a positive light decided to lash out and call them names.
Lauren is no better than anyone.Name calling is what children do. Ryan is a hypocrite- threatening to end things if she says another word about sex- what did he do first? Jamie has gone off the deep end- she says this is her, deal with it. How does she make it in society? Carina- what was that thing she was wearing on her head? Awthina- you are going to get hurt. Adrian is a master manipulator.
Funny, I sure didn’t care for Carina’s outfit, but it looked so familiar. If any of you watch RHOBH from the U.S., ditzy Dorit wore that same thing, and I really didn’t like it then either. And speaking of clothing, what are those suits Jeff wears all the time? New version of leisure suits or is it popular in Australia?
I actually loved what she was wearing, it made her look a little mysterious lol and as many times as the camera cut to her, she looked ready to give it! (Still siding with Jamie tho, she’s loud and a bit reactionary but sometimes that happens when someone is really hurt)
and yeah agree about Dorit, that was NOT her color
Who the actual hell made Jamie ‘the boss’ and the spokesperson for everyone? Her communication style and delivery is absolutely shocking. It’s like being back at school, side with me or you aren’t my friend. What happened to having an opinion? You can only be Jamie’s friend if you agree with her. Get lost Jamie! Since the retreet, you have been a disgusting person. No one is agreeing with Lauren’s behaviour, but for you to go into the dinner party like you want everyone for dinner, is not acceptable. You even made another lady cry, and made her question her actions. Who would want their kids to turn out like you? There is a way to talk in a group setting and your actions were uncalled for. The production team will show us viewers a version of what went on, but what i saw tonight is not on. Your husband is annoying as well. Both coming on to see who’s on their side! You are here to find a partner, not make best friends. Just get on with the task in hand. By next week, you’ll all be friends again, so stop making the drama man.I also find it really annoying how fake Awhina and Adrian are. Clearly they don’t end up together. Adrian doesn’t know how to conduct himself in a relationship. All he can provide is sex and there are toys out there for that now, Awhina. I am sure Awhina is looking for a man that has emotional intelligence, to put her and her son first. Why do these shows bring these ‘Love Island’ type guys onto shows where you actually have to think with your head instead of your d**k. What’s more important for these tv shows? Viewing figures or a successful experiment? Clearly from season 3 or 4 onwards, it’s only been about the talking points, not so much about getting people into a successful relationship. It’s a shame, but that’s what a production crew are paid to do, create drama.
so trueeee omggg i used to feel bad for awhina but omg staying for some nasty mideget smelly dick??? so turw get a rise toy or smth girll and go back home to your child, literally child abuse tf
You know. I get having an opinion but I feel like saying names like “bitch” and talking about someone’s son who is not in the experiment either…That’s low.
Jaimes delievery mightve been seen as “aggressive” but she wasnt wrong. shes an aquarius like me so I get her 100%! We like to be fair and resolve conflicts which is what we’ve seen from her time and time again. shes been the voice of reason throughout the entire series so far. When she and the group of ladies approached Lauren they were more than kind, Lauren was the one that got spicy and the other ladies gave it right back to her. Now again, Jaime is an aquarius, so when someone wants smoke with her shes going to throw them to the flames. Now what she didnt expect, was for her so called friends to have Laurens back when everyone witnesses how classless and rude she was being. Then to add insult to injury they said she was a mean girl. Us aquarius take our relationships VERY seriously. We are big on having our peoples backs so when they didnt do that she took it as the ultimate betrayal. Rhi is also an aquarius which is why she owned up and apologized because she knew Jaime was right and she wasnt being a good friend nor was she being fair in that situation.
Lauren is the bully, NOT Jamie who has stuck up for everyone at some time or other. Lauren is just a narcissistic cow who thinks she is better than anyone. Sooner she goes the better. Hopefully Jamie will be able to settle down a bit once the trouble maker has left.
Paul sits there through every episode like a mute. Reminds me of a scared dog with his tail tucked between his legs since his blow up. I think Karina is sympathizing with Lauren because of what transpired between her and Paul on the night he flipped out. She’s trying to help defend the indefensible
There we go Jamie’s true colours are showing. that was absolutely disgusting behaviour from her, she really needs a taste of her own medicine. glad to see Australia can finally see it.
yeah i agree lets hope all those who defended her last episode on here can admit to their mistakes. its so clear she wants to be the center of attention and does that by just being loud. its a gross personality trait to have. i feel bad for Rhi and Carina, maybe theyll get the apology they deserve.
I agree that I am not on Jamie’s side with how she has handled things, but I think her heart was in the right place. The girls noticed she was not into Clint and wanted her to realise she was missing out on a good guy. Jamie has shown several times that she has good insight into most situations. However, I think her attitude towards Karina was horrible. All this energy should be towards Lauren. Jamie is seeing this as ultimate betrayal, but I honestly think that Karina and Rhi wanted to make sure Lauren was ok and not necessarily taking her side, especially Rhi cause Karina gives flip-flop energy. We saw Rhi go to Lauren the next day to say how she addresses the ladies is uncalled for, of course Lauren hates the truth and taking accountability.
Hi Lauren, u spend too much time on here finding any opportunity to comment, I take it the business isn’t going well?
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Did anyone else get a sour taste from Jamie???? i mean i really want to like her but after tonight i don’t see how i can anymore. she was awfully obnoxious and rude to her ‘friends’. anyway Jamie im sorry but i cant defend this time
yeah i guess this is what shes like when she doesnt get her way… very sad to see
im glad i can say that i never liked her. it was so obvius something like this would happen, her personality is predictable. saw it coming from a mile away… and could hear it too LOL 😉
it was so clear she was just looking to fight and that is the problem. people ar scareed of her because of how confrontational and loud she is. people defending her baffles me
I think we saw Jamie spiral as she realised that she backed the wrong people this whole time. If you notice, Jamie is just loud and very outspoken, BUT, she actually didn’t call Lauren names, or swear at her. I do agree that her approach is not the most ideal, but that doesn’t mean that your so called friends, can sit back and allow someone to call her names, and then sit quietly as Clint swears at her. Hmmm? True friends, would have spoken up for her to Lauren just about the name calling. Just to say “Hey Lauren, we know you want to defend yourself but no one here is calling you out of your name, no need to do that.” A true friend could also just take the loud friend aside, and say ” friend, I think things are getting crazy, let’s try to just drop it for now, she clearly doesn’t want to talk about this and she clearly doesn’t have a big enough vocabulary to express herself in the lady like manner that pretends to have” BUT to just keep quiet??? NO ways man…Those are not Jamie’s friends. They let their “friend” get sworn at infront of everyone. No ways I let my friend go down like that. I would defend her, and then take her out of that situation to calm things down, and then the next morning, talk to her about her approach and what I observed. What she will know and remember is that I had her back.
im sorry she has been cuaght being the first to swer multiple times… dont use that as a defence
BECAUSE LAUREN is the alphashes not letting anyone take control much as she thinks she wnats it – she needs serious therapy. Laurens the most bogan one of them all, with her shein shit clothes pretending her shit doesnt stink. she comes from the streets and has done herself a rebrand
Holy shit Jamie is a spiteful bitch
I am team Jamie as well…and I wouldn’t use the term ‘wrong’, but she should have let Carina speak in her entirety and THEN respond. She should have bit her tongue for that brief moment, and heard her out. She did go too far with the ‘shut your mouth’ to more than one person as well. Not cool. But I love her. She let her emotions get away with her. Could you imagine how it would have been, had the Puppetmaster and DumbDumb shown up?! Yikes!
I couldn’t edit my last reply. I just wanted to clarify that I agre, that Jamie was not wrong, in the reason behind her confronting those who needed it, just in (as it was said in the episode) the delivery.
Hi Lauren,
YOU ARE TRAGIC
im embarrassed for you that you keep being a key board warrior
u need to get a life, your moment is over lol 😂
I’m still LOL at Ryan…Ryan obstaining for sex before exercise to preserve his testotrone levels so he have a great performance! Thank you to the narrator for reminding me!! HAHAHAHA
“Optimal physical performance” OK Ryan…get it get it get it HAHAHA
AND he had the nerve to almost end things with Jac AFTER he told the boys Jac gives great BJ’s!!! You clown!
Yes. A bit of a hypocrite
Like if you do not want Lauren at the dinner party! This is not your show lady!!!
Clint’s, Lauren’s little puppy SMH Grow some sir.
So the thing with Jamie is instead of her starting the convo telling everyone how she really feels (hurt) she goes in guns-blazing… She reminds me alot of myself when I was 28 years young. Jamie explained how she is a tough woman but loves hard. Ditto, what she needs to learn is that not all women are like her… Jamie WAS NOT the MEN GIRL! It was Lauren! Corina’s an idiot…. HAHAHA
Now, I posted the above comment before I saw Jamie screaming “shut your mouth”… Now, Jamie…. HAHAHA she should have just left the dinner. She let her emotions explode!
No family woman would stay with a man who punches walls at the fact she has a past sex life ……
Jamie is legit sinking lower and lower. Absolutely disgusting behavior. Backing people up doesn’t mean youre right100% of the time.
preach!!!! all these people backing her up are too dumb to admit this bc theyve fallen in love with her during the stupid show and cant accept their favourite is the bad guy/mean girl
Hi Lauren, coming to the comments again? 😂 stop stealing pples user name u coward
Jamie you are a beautifull person and those rich b…. dont deserve friend like you. They are empathetic, please, Lauren money thats what they emphathise to.
beautiful she is definitely not. stop defending this poor behaviour its embarrassing
Lauren can you stop coming to the comments and using everyone else’s user name to disguise yourself 😂😂 it’s tragic
dumb woman you just saying this bc people have different opinions than you…. you sound a lot like Jamie the witch looking bitch…such boganic behaviour…
Hark at who is name calling now? Strongest I have used is madam. and that’s what Lauren reminds me of, a Brothel Madam who lives in rough area of the city, looks like her too, come to think of it.
As much as I disagree w screaming I also disagree w the entire table of women sitting quiet while Lauren called them all names and Karina and rhi gasliting Jamie into thinking their GROUP civil conversation asking Lauren how she felt was an attack …. it’s literally filmed you see them being calm until Lauren started w rude and disrespectful comments..shocker it’s a dating reality show……. also if they didn’t like her ‘agressive approach’ why did rhi and korina let her use the same approach at Jackie when she texted rhi’s hubby and stop her from calling justice for Lauren at the beginning against Elliot …… if she is in their corner amazing but no one is willing to help her out when she needed it and now she is crashing out unfortunately
Also another random comment – they made Jamie sound like she is the only one yelling but Corina was also yelling at her and added more names like mean girl… I cannot ahahahahahaha
oh grow up. horrible comparison
Lauren… u have had a field day today 😂😂 keep it coming
Im sorry but i have to agree with mafs, Jamie was clearly shouting first and was instigating it all. it would’ve been much more civil if jamie could control herself for once
Ohhh Mel is going to hand Lauren her ass… is it Sunday yet 😂
Can’t come fast enough! She’s got it coming to her.
Lauren still didn’t “get it” enough from the experts, in my opinion. Kinda disappointed they went harder on & spent more time calling Jamie to the carpet (as they should’ve) instead of truly showing Lauren what a nasty woman she is & then handing her a respectable verbal a** “whooping” she deserved 🙂
Jamie has shown the highest level of emotional maturity throughout the series, but tonight we saw her flaws. I still can’t say I disagree with her though, nothing is more annoying than someone spineless like Carina, especially to someone like Jamie who is very strong. My head is still boggled by how Paul punching a wall within the first few weeks of their relationship was forgiven so easily but Jamie raising her voice was a bigger issue. Weird one that
I agree with your statement about Jamie. She is still my girl though. We all have flaws. She is letting her hurt lead her in continuing with the raised voice and cutting Carina off. I wish she would have just sat back, and calmly listened to Carina…and once she was finished, then respond…with an acceptable tone and volume. Jaime is passionate and straight forward, and everyone has known that from day one. She is not going to let anyone extinguish her flame. But, she might have made a more effective arguement with a quieter tone. When raising my kids… I got my point across to them alot stronger, when I took them by the arm or whatever and looked right in their face and firmly, WHISPERED, whatever it was I wanted them to do, then I ever did, when I raised my voice and was yelling at them, LOL . I would not call Carina ‘spineless’… I don’t think she handles confrontation as well as others might. We all are not the same, as Rhi clearly showed tonight… she processes things differently. I can only imagine how much more loud and heated, that dinner party would have gotten, had Dimwit and the Iceberg showed up. What a chicken shit move to hide away at home.
she aint your girl bitch she dont know you. shes a c*nt who legitamately looks like a troll
Look, you’re calling names. You have the right to not like the comment or the person but namecalling is low.
sorry i shouldnt be like jamie youre right my bad
mate she doesnt know you chill
Jamie is a bully
SHE SHOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN BROUGHT BACK IN THE EXPERIMENT, THAT LAUREN IS A VAIN, CONCEITED, NARCISSISTIC MADAM. LAUREN THE LUSHI AM BEGINNING TO THINK THAT ELIOT SAW HER FOR WHAT SHE IS, A FAKE, SHE IS THE FERAL BOGAN, NOT HER SISTER OR THE GIRLS IN THE GROUP, JUST HER ALONE, I HOPE THAT JOHN, MEL AND ALELEESANDRA PUT THOSE WHO DELIBERATELY WENT AGAINST THE SHOWS PROTOCOL IN THEIR PLACE AND KICK THEM OFF THE EXPERIMENT ALTOGETHER.
It’s 100% Lauren come to be a keyboard warrior, it’s sad 😂 💪
They stole my users name too ‘mafs’She must think so highly of us thank you for the compliment Lauren 😂
I think the real reason Carina and Rhi don’t apologise to Jamie upfront like Jamie wanted is because they felt they got caught up in the middle of things. That is half true. But they really didn’t think about the context of what Lauren was saying when they ran to her side.
Rhi’s apology was genuine but you can totally tell she hates conflict. She suits 1 on 1 communication better.
It would have been nice to hear what Corina had to say but you already know that she would say she ‘wants to be a good person’ blah blah blah. She does seem a little away with the fairies with her rose colour glasses on everything.
Jamie probably came in too strong but you can see she was fed up waiting for Carina and Rhi to say something. To be honest I don’t think Carina or Rhi would have said anything at all if they could.
You got 2 ladies who don’t like conflict and take the backseat. And another who has no trouble with conflict and like to front foot things. When it comes to resolving conflict they are polar opposites! Personally I don’t think any of them did a good job of being the bigger person and pushing out of their default setting to find a resolution.
The thing is…NOT wanting to be involved in conflict should have kept Carina AND Rhi from running to Lauren and involving themselves at all. What is going on with this two, I think, is that they want to present to everyone what “kind people” they want everyone to think they are – it’s a chosen identity thing – and so they’d rather be SEEN “comforting Lauren” (which she brought on herself by openly insulting every single person there INCLUDING Rhi and Carina) because it makes THEM look like they are neutral. Running to “see how Lauren was doing” (because everyone else had a rightfully negative response to her) and then EXPECTING no one who was insulted to have ANY ISSUES with that was a wild expectation.
The two women are playing both sides because it benefits their perceptions of themselves and how they want people to see them. And then to self-victimize because a friend feels betrayed by you contextualing and low-key defending indefensible behavior (again…also directed at Carina and Rhi!) and wants to confront you about it? Yeesh.
I don’t think it’s about being right in this situation, they all screwed up in different ways. It’s pretty evident that they all screwed up when the focus has shifted from the actual problem (Lauren) to now each other.
Carina and Rhi MADE themselves part of the problem by inserting themselves in a situation that they didn’t need to.
Running to comfort the person who openly insulted you to your because those insulted clap back at them …isn’t a mature move. That’s about some internal shit you need to work through about allowing consequences for actions. Trying to mollify someone like Lauren doesn’t do anything. What it does is embolden them to keep at it because you’ve NOW shown them that as long as they “act hurt or overwhelmed” because they are getting rightful negative reactions to their behavior…YOU will chase after them, “make sure you’re okay”🥴, and then apologize TO THEM for receiving any consequences of their own actions.
And then they don’t even show up to another group event because they don’t need to. Leaving YOU to deal with the fallout of a crumbling relationship YOU helped instigate by inserting yourself where you didn’t need to.
Rhi and Carina are problematic.
Jamie is the embodiment of COMPLETELY right message (NO NOTES on the subject and context of her complaint or her issues with Rhi and Carina), COMPLETELY WRONG delivery.
So, NOW…because of her inability to see that sometimes she just needs to stop talking (and especially talking OVER people)…the argument devolves into a treatise on tone or volume or aggression in communication. Which are valid academic discussions to have in a calm setting. But when things escalate like this – THIS WAS ALL on Jamie – nothing will be accomplished.
And then the people from whom you DID deserve an apology…are now given the pathway to ignore the actual point you have been trying to make and they get to shut down. It’s a catch-22; the more you yell about how you’re owed an apology, the less apt people are to even think about giving one – just on principle.
You’re actually super right on that. I felt like Jamie got too heated and screamed. Carina clearly wanted to stay friends.
Whether or not Jamie and Carina can have a relationship is one thing, but the fact that Jamie’s voice overwhelmed Carina’s will make people empathize with her side even though (in my opinion) Carina was wrong and didn’t have Jamie’s or anyone’s backs that night. At least from what we were shown, they were not mean girls and Lauren not liking the atmosphere or not being able to answer any question in a positive light decided to lash out and call them names.
Lauren is no better than anyone.Name calling is what children do. Ryan is a hypocrite- threatening to end things if she says another word about sex- what did he do first? Jamie has gone off the deep end- she says this is her, deal with it. How does she make it in society? Carina- what was that thing she was wearing on her head? Awthina- you are going to get hurt. Adrian is a master manipulator.
Funny, I sure didn’t care for Carina’s outfit, but it looked so familiar. If any of you watch RHOBH from the U.S., ditzy Dorit wore that same thing, and I really didn’t like it then either. And speaking of clothing, what are those suits Jeff wears all the time? New version of leisure suits or is it popular in Australia?
I actually loved what she was wearing, it made her look a little mysterious lol and as many times as the camera cut to her, she looked ready to give it! (Still siding with Jamie tho, she’s loud and a bit reactionary but sometimes that happens when someone is really hurt)
and yeah agree about Dorit, that was NOT her color
Who the actual hell made Jamie ‘the boss’ and the spokesperson for everyone? Her communication style and delivery is absolutely shocking. It’s like being back at school, side with me or you aren’t my friend. What happened to having an opinion? You can only be Jamie’s friend if you agree with her. Get lost Jamie! Since the retreet, you have been a disgusting person. No one is agreeing with Lauren’s behaviour, but for you to go into the dinner party like you want everyone for dinner, is not acceptable. You even made another lady cry, and made her question her actions. Who would want their kids to turn out like you? There is a way to talk in a group setting and your actions were uncalled for. The production team will show us viewers a version of what went on, but what i saw tonight is not on. Your husband is annoying as well. Both coming on to see who’s on their side! You are here to find a partner, not make best friends. Just get on with the task in hand. By next week, you’ll all be friends again, so stop making the drama man.I also find it really annoying how fake Awhina and Adrian are. Clearly they don’t end up together. Adrian doesn’t know how to conduct himself in a relationship. All he can provide is sex and there are toys out there for that now, Awhina. I am sure Awhina is looking for a man that has emotional intelligence, to put her and her son first. Why do these shows bring these ‘Love Island’ type guys onto shows where you actually have to think with your head instead of your d**k. What’s more important for these tv shows? Viewing figures or a successful experiment? Clearly from season 3 or 4 onwards, it’s only been about the talking points, not so much about getting people into a successful relationship. It’s a shame, but that’s what a production crew are paid to do, create drama.
so trueeee omggg i used to feel bad for awhina but omg staying for some nasty mideget smelly dick??? so turw get a rise toy or smth girll and go back home to your child, literally child abuse tf
That did’nt make one iota of sense at all, can you say it again in English please, pure gibberish?
You know. I get having an opinion but I feel like saying names like “bitch” and talking about someone’s son who is not in the experiment either…That’s low.
Jaimes delievery mightve been seen as “aggressive” but she wasnt wrong. shes an aquarius like me so I get her 100%! We like to be fair and resolve conflicts which is what we’ve seen from her time and time again. shes been the voice of reason throughout the entire series so far. When she and the group of ladies approached Lauren they were more than kind, Lauren was the one that got spicy and the other ladies gave it right back to her. Now again, Jaime is an aquarius, so when someone wants smoke with her shes going to throw them to the flames. Now what she didnt expect, was for her so called friends to have Laurens back when everyone witnesses how classless and rude she was being. Then to add insult to injury they said she was a mean girl. Us aquarius take our relationships VERY seriously. We are big on having our peoples backs so when they didnt do that she took it as the ultimate betrayal. Rhi is also an aquarius which is why she owned up and apologized because she knew Jaime was right and she wasnt being a good friend nor was she being fair in that situation.
Jamie is a bully. Lauren stood up to her and she didn’t like it. Carina is the only brave one.
Lauren is the bully, NOT Jamie who has stuck up for everyone at some time or other. Lauren is just a narcissistic cow who thinks she is better than anyone. Sooner she goes the better. Hopefully Jamie will be able to settle down a bit once the trouble maker has left.
Nah ur a nut job that should have been sucked up
We all deserve a friend like Jaime the ones saying shes wrong probably is the problem in their life 😂
Paul sits there through every episode like a mute. Reminds me of a scared dog with his tail tucked between his legs since his blow up. I think Karina is sympathizing with Lauren because of what transpired between her and Paul on the night he flipped out. She’s trying to help defend the indefensible
lauren needs to be ripped a new one.